Oh. Im a Widow: Working Through Life After a Death

Relocation by choice. Retirement by accident. Widowed by surprise. Oh. Im a Widow chronicles my journey after the year in which these life-changing events occurred. At sixty-seven, my husband died soon after wed moved to the Washington D.C. area for my career-capping job. On the day he died I had no family or friends nearby and no professional engagement. The book recounts the steps I took, the help I found, and the emotional and practical struggles I encountered as I built a new, full life. It presents essays written over years, some published in Chicken Soup for the Soul: Grieving, Loss and Healing, in Contagious Optimism and in its sequel, 10 Habits of Truly Optimistic People, and in print and online journals.

Unlike most books on widowhood, this is more about living than grieving.Written in a conversational voice, the book offers practical, empathetic support to widows. After losing someone close, Oh. Im a Widow aims to help readers recover, rebuild, and realize a full new life.

Barbara Rady Kazdans book Oh. Im a Widow pulled me in and held me rapt as I watched the confident retirees life unravel upon losing her husband of forty-two years. Though her three grown children rally to support her, shes stunned as she stares into an empty future.

Sprinkled with research studies, humor, and quotes from literary and philosophical greats, such chapters as Get Up, Get Dressed, Now What?, Kissing a Lot of Frogs; and Paddling Upstream and Down guide us along her rocky path.

As Barbara stumbles to move forward, her honesty about whats gone right-and wrong-in her marriage and her life, make her story real and relatable. [Her] attempts at finding community, support groups, a purpose, and a new partner will resonate with divorcees, empty nesters, aging singles, all of us who have been thrust into worlds were not prepared to enter.

Marian Mathews Clark, author of These Doors and Sixty Something and Flying Solo