Trying to grow to be a `woman`

During my adolescence which this book starts in with me now being 21 by time this is published, I went through quite a few downs more then ups until the last year or two. Many heartbreaks with trying to let boys heal me or love me enough to make me love myself. Society trying to break me down and succeeding at times. Losing myself over and over and trying to find myself. Then finally accepting the way of life and trying to enjoy the little moments leading to me find my soulmate.